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Season 2

Oct. 1, 2022

EP: 0250b - Female Led Relationships - We've become SWINGERS! (jk, so…

That's right, this last weekend my ego got a boost, and my mind opened up more than I ever thought possible. Now listen, my subby is FAR from a "hall pass". But things that I thought I'd never say, I …

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Sept. 28, 2022

EP: 0250a - Female Led Relationships - FLR Social Media Fakes and Hur…

( PART ONE of TWO!) My subby joind me again to talk about the hurtful side of social media, and how his phone is NOT more important than me! This one went a little long, so look for part two …

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Sept. 20, 2022

EP: 0249- Female Led Relationships - What are some basics in an FLR?

I found a pretty cool website that talks about the basics of an FLR. I thought this was interesting and felt it was maybe geared toward the organized minded people (who I strive to be like). The website even offers …

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Sept. 12, 2022

EP: 0248 - Female Led Relationships - You DON'T need to make your man…

Yep. I said it. I may be a week late, but I have to get this off my chest, with the help of Evolving Your Man. Also, ladies, let's get together and chat! I want to form a group, or …

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Aug. 29, 2022

EP: 0247 - Female Led Relationships - I talk with The Accidental Swin…

That's right, the illusional "Accidental Swingers" episode has been resurrected, and assembled with love by my subby. He's pretty fuckin good with his fingers ;) Myrina and Tristan share about who they are, how Swinging came ...

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Aug. 24, 2022

EP: 0246 - Female Led Relationships - My daughter joins us this week!

Yep, I said it, my daughter is our special this week. Yes I know, it's wednesday. It's been another hell of a week, but better late than never, right? Get a teenager's perspective on her parents living a Female-Led Relationsh...

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Aug. 15, 2022

EP: 0245 - Female Led Relationships - Staying out of BDSM trouble..

I get emails and DMs from my listeners every day. It's so exciting and rewarding! And often, I get leads on fantastic articles. And this week is no exception! This one talks about "How to stay out of trouble in …

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Aug. 8, 2022

EP: 0244 - Female Led Relationships - When FLR and ADHD kids collide..

This is the one where Krystine reflects on being berated by "WonderMom". Who by the way, has carbon copies of my ADHD son. How does that affect the dominant in a Female Led Relationship / Marriage? Well, sit down with …

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Aug. 1, 2022

EP: 0243 - Female Led Relationships - FLR Dating sites? (w/my subby)

We decide that 10pm on a school night is a good time to record the podcast. It went so well that we broke it into two parts, after the fact of course. So, This one is the one that you …

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July 26, 2022

EP: 0241 - Female Led Relationships - How to size up a cock cage

Despite the sit show that I gave my subby to edit, he put together a pretty nice episode. Did/do you hear the mic static? Yeah, we did too. Subby is looking into what the hell that was and how to …

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July 20, 2022

EP: 0240 - Female Led Relationships - What is crossdressing?

On time? no...Better sound quality? yes...Maybe next week we can hit both goals? I dabble in a little crossdressing talk, because it was brought up to me a few times this last week. So, here we go! Be sure to …

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July 13, 2022

EP: 0239 - Female Led Relationships - Well fuck....

Week number two of living in a shit storm. Subby here, I personally apologize to you the listener. Try as I have for 3-4 days now, I can't for the life of me edit a WONDERFUL interview with The Accidental …

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July 5, 2022

EP: 0238 - Female Led Relationships - Swapping Roles in a Female Led …

So my subby set his phone down between us as we were eating our pizza rolls on Monday night, July 4. This was our "independence weekend". Independence from living the way society says we have to. We are full time …

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June 27, 2022

EP: 0237 - Female Led Relationships - Sex and Dating and Dominant Wom…

What the hell happened to last week?? Oh, it's still going on. The graduation phase is done and the moving phase has ramped the hell up! But my subby managed to knock this one out. Props to my subby! This …

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June 13, 2022

BONUS EP: 21- Female Led Relationships - MORE fun ideas for tormentin…

Part 2 of the one comes from an email that I got a while ago, that is FILLED with great ideas for punishing, or having fun torturing your submissive. I would like your feedback on this one, as always, because …

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June 7, 2022

EP: 0235 - Female Led Relationships - Fun Ideas to Torture Your Submi…

Hey guess what? Life happens. This episode should have dropped yesterday, but it was graduation weekend at our house, and there was no time for my subby to edit this one over the weekend. Even better, it's another two parter,...

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June 3, 2022

Bonus EP: 020 Female Led Relationship - A REAL FLR

Your FLR does not have to look like those silly memes that are plastered all over social media Female Led Relationship, and how it realistically sustains! Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.c...

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May 31, 2022

EP: 0234 - Female Led Relationships - I shouldn't have Tattoos....

BULLSHIT! I ran across this article on Quora. It's so bad, that I'm not even going to give it anny more attention beyond this rant. Buckle up, this is the edited version... Be sure to visit my affiliates to support …

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May 27, 2022

Bonus EP: 019 Female Led Relationship - More Chastity talk with my su…

This is part two of the talk that I had with my subby from episode 0233. We TRULY appreciate you taking your time to listen!! Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.com has offered you, the …

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May 23, 2022

EP: 0233 - Female Led Relationships - Chastity, Teasing, and Denial

My subby is here on this one! FUCKIN YAY! We are at Campground #2 getting all settled in, and I answer an email from a subby downunder! This is another two parter, so look for part two on Friday! Be …

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May 20, 2022

Bonus EP: 018 HEALTHY Relationships - The Priory Society (part 2)

My subby whittled down two episodes from our talk with Eros and Isis from The Priory Society. And guess what? there's still another 40 or so minutes of content that the cool kids on my Patreon got to hear. Being …

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May 16, 2022

EP: 0232 - HEALTHY Relationships - And Priory Society (part 1)

We had to hold our inner fangirl/fanboy back big time when we welcomed The Priory Society to the show. And the insight that they shared was way too much for one episode! So cath part 2 this friday!! Priory Society …

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May 13, 2022

Bonus EP: 017 Female Led Relationship - Life, Chastity, and FLRs

I touch a little on my life, and a couple of messages that I received in the last week or so. Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.com has offered you, the amazing listener, 20% off …

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May 9, 2022

EP: 0231 - Female Led Relationships - 10 Things an FLR is not!

More of my feedback of what this FLR thing is not. These assumptions blow my mind sometimes! Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.com has offered you, the amazing listener, 20% off PLUS a coup...

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April 29, 2022

Bonus EP: 016 Female Led Relationship - The Great Wage Conspiracy/Tik…

The title pretty much says it all. I again just hit record, and, well, here ya go! Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.com has offered you, the amazing listener, 20% off PLUS a couple free …

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April 25, 2022

EP: 0229 - Female Led Relationships - Chastity , Intimacy, and Swinge…

This one is a little bit of a hodge-podge. I just sat down in the booth, and hit record. I have a couple of main points, and its really just a stream of consciousness. Be sure to visit my affiliates …

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April 22, 2022

Bonus EP: 015 Female Led Relationship - What an FLR is NOT....(part t…

There was so much left over from Monday's episode, that it spilled over to the bonus! Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.com has offered you, the amazing listener, 20% off PLUS a couple free ...

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April 18, 2022

EP: 0228 - Female Led Relationships - What an FLR is NOT

I've come across some pretty fucked up views of what an FLR is. I'm guessing that is come from assumptions, or previous experiences (that have gone wrong). Let me do my best here to shed some light on what an …

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April 15, 2022

Bonus EP: 014 Female Led Relationship - Friendly Strangers!

During a Wisdom App call, I had an unexpected guest. But what a WONDERFUL conversation we had. And we have made yet another connection with super nice like-minded people! Special Guest Aria Moineau from kinkyevents.co.uk (and...

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April 4, 2022

EP: 0226 - Female Led Relationships - Unapologetically me in our FLR

I LOVE email feeedback. And this one was spot on. My subby has brought it to my attention that I apologize way too much, and for things that I shouldn't need to apologize for. Well, point taken, and my new …

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April 1, 2022

Bonus EP: 013 Female Led Relationship - Chastity 101 with Dr. B

I have Dr. B on again and we cover sort of a chastity 101 review. This time I have a lgit medical perspective. Be sure to visit my affiliates to support this podcast! LockedInLust.com has offered you, the amazing listener, …

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March 28, 2022

EP: 0225 - Female Led Relationships - Real Life FLR Conversations (Pt…

This is part two of conversation with some (now) friends of ours as we discuss their creation and evolution of their very own FLR. We would like to thank them not only for this conversation, but for their generosity in …

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March 25, 2022

Bonus EP: 12 - Female Led Relationships - Boys don't like smart girls…

How fuckin stupid does that sound. Well, that was paraphrased from a comment that I got on my TikTok this week. And do I EVER have a thing or two to say about that! Tindra Lust - A Deck of …

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March 21, 2022

EP: 0244 (pt1) - Female Led Relationships - Another REA LIFE FLR Coup…

This week we have the honor of having a conversation with some (now) friends of ours as we discuss their creation and evolution of their very own FLR. This is part one of a two part conversation. We would like …

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March 18, 2022

Bonus EP: 011 Female Led Relationship - What is your FLR like in publ…

Just some insight on how my subby and I interact in puplic to maintaoin our FLR/FLM. Tindra Lust - A Deck of Two Queens (PLEASE? Tindra is a dear friend of mine and an AMAZING author! If you like my …

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March 14, 2022

EP: 0223 - Female Led Relationships - FLR Q&A

I LOVE getting questions on my social media and through email! So in this episode, I answer a few of them. Have I answered any of yours yet? Tindra Lust - A Deck of Two Queens (PLEASE? Tindra is a …

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March 11, 2022

Bonus EP: 010 Female Led Relationship - An FLR can weather a shit sto…

A slice of a REAL FLR when life gets you down. That's all I have to say. Tindra Lust - A Deck of Two Queens (PLEASE? Tindra is a dear friend of mine and an AMAZING author! If you like …

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March 7, 2022

EP: 0222 - Female Led Relationships - Class is in session again with …

Dr.B and I have been emailing back and forth for some time now, and I feel that it is time to have him on the show to respond to the topics of the last two episodes, and so much more. …

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March 4, 2022

Bonus EP: 008 - Female Led Relationships - My Take on Traditional Rel…

Some minor ramblings where I attempt to clear up what may have been some mis-speakings about my view on traditional relationships. Tindra Lust - A Deck of Two Queens (PLEASE? Tindra is a dear friend of mine and an AMAZING …

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Feb. 28, 2022

EP: 0221 - Female Led Relationships - Dr.B is in the house!

Dr.B and I have been emailing back and forth for some time now, and I feel that it is time to have him on the show to respond to the topics of the last two episodes, and so much more. …

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Feb. 25, 2022

Bonus EP: 007 - Female Led Relationships - What my sex life really li…

Grab some popcorn because the end of this one is a thriller! HAHA... Tindra Lust - A Deck of Two Queens (PLEASE? Tindra is a dear friend of mine and an AMAZING author! If you like my podcast and what …

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Feb. 21, 2022

EP: 0220 Female Led Relationships - What is Orgasm Control and Denial

Continuing in the spirit of learning together, I took a little deep dive into orgasm control, which includes tease and denial. That's one of my most favorite aspects to our FLR!. This is the one where we all learn more …

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Feb. 18, 2022

BONUS EP:006 - Female Led Relationships - What an FLR can REALLY be l…

Let's talk a little about how an FLR can realistically look. I share more about how things work for my subby and I. Things are a bit different between home life and camp life. So like Bad Chad says "it's …

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Feb. 14, 2022

EP: 0219 Female Led Relationships - Let's talk about "Edging"...

In the spirit of learning together, I took a little deep dive into "edging". This is the one where we all learn more little trick to wrap our sub hubbys/boyfriends around our finger just a little bit more..... Show Links: …

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Feb. 7, 2022

EP: 0218 - Female Led Relationships - Q & A (part Two)

This is part two of a two part Q & A series that I put together with questions from my WONDERFUL listeners, and my subby. As always, PLEASE send me your questions or comments . They are GREATLY appreciated! Show …

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Feb. 4, 2022

Bonus EP: 005 - Female Led Relationships - What is Cuckolding?

I talk a little about the basics of cuckolding. But again, I'm not taking the porn/terrible social media meme angle on it. There are real feelings involved. So keep the communication cranked up, because shit can go south fast...

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Jan. 31, 2022

EP: 0217 - Female Led Relationships - Q & A with my subby!

This is part one of a two part Q & A series that I put together with questions from my WONDERFUL listeners, and my subby. As always, PLEASE send me your questions or comments . They are GREATLY appreciated! Show …

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Jan. 28, 2022

Bonus EP: 004 Female Led Relationship - subbies give up your passwords

This is a bonus shorty. I've had some fucked up dreams, and it just got me to thinking about how an FLR could never worked in my past. I was subject to lies constantly, and about the stupidest shit? Anyways, …

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Jan. 24, 2022

EP: 0216 - Female Led Relationships: How Punishments work in an FLR

This is the one about punishments! I dropped by one of my favorite places, Chastity Mansion, and picked up a few ideas that hadn't crossed my mind. But I'm excited to know them now! Show Links: Chastity Mansion Tindra Lust …

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Jan. 21, 2022

EP: 0215 - Female Led Relationships: Setting up an FLR

Thank you for listening to this bonus episode. I scratch the surface of how you can go about setting up your Female Led Relationship. Show Links: Tindra Lust - A Deck of Two Queens (PLEASE? Tindra is a dear friend …

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